Anthony Robbins' 12
Reasons Why People Don't Get
Wealthy
According to Wallace Wattles, in his popular wealth treatise
called the Science of Getting Rich, said that, "There is a
science of getting rich, and it is an exact science, like
algebra or arithmetic. There are certain laws which govern the
process of acquiring riches, and once these laws are learned
and obeyed by anyone, that person will get rich with
mathematical certainty."
It is true. Those who make wealth know that it comes about
by application of simple rules and principles. Those who don't
make wealth don't know about these simple things, and so they
assume that wealth is a result of luck or pure chance or
something just as superstitious or silly.
Anthony Robbins is one of the top success coaches in the
world, having coached star sports players, heads of states and
Fortune 500 executives. In his Get The Edge program, he listed
down 12 specific reasons he has come to observe to be the
leading causes for most people's lack of wealth.
Here they are:
1. They never decide and really define, very
specifically, what wealth means for them. The keyword
here is specifically. Can you imagine how hard it would be to
build a car or a plane without making a blueprint or sketch
drawings of it first? You have to know what your target is
before you go chasing after it.
2. They make wealth a moving target instead of a
fixed one (this is related to point one above). Once
you have your target, fix it. Don't change it until you reach
it. You must accomplish each step, celebrate, and then set
course for a new step, a new target.
3. They define it in a way that seems
unreachable. You only achieve what you believe. No
more, no less. So you must make it believable for you. Set
goals that will make you move forward and stretch, but not too
high that even you yourself don't believe you can. Take the
biggest step you believe you can, achieve it, then take the
next biggest you believe you can. This will build positive
reinforcement in your self-confidence as well.
4. They never start. Ok, this is obvious.
If you keep thinking about it forever, it will forever remain
in the thought level. You have to act! Start somewhere,
anywhere! Only after you start do you begin to get some
feedback which will help you plot your course better. The
aircraft has to first take off before it starts to adjust
course for its destination. You must start, somewhere,
anywhere, doesn't matter, just start! Act!
5. They never make it a must. Let me
explain what it means to make it a must. It means marshalling
all your intent, your will, your direction, into one singular
flow that is directed towards your goal. All obstacles are
viewed as challenges to be overcome. You will meet obstacles,
and so expect it, but also expect to move forward anyways. Use
your obstacles to develop strength and skills, don't run away.
Find out how to go past them. Find out! There is always a way,
always. And if your emotions are acting against your desire,
embrace them, learn what they are, know yourself, but keep
moving forward. Make it a must, and it will happen. Guaranteed.
You don't know in how many steps it will take, but you know it
will happen.
6. They don't have a realistic plan. If you
want to do something, find out how it is done from someone who
has done it before. Make a realistic plan. Copy from those who
have succeeded before you. But don't throw away your intuition.
Your intuition is extremely powerful once you learn how to
listen to it with practice.
7. If they have a realistic plan, they never follow
through on the plan. Well, if you don't follow the
plan, who will?
8. They give responsibility to others ("experts")
instead of to themselves. This way, they never really
learn how to do it, and if there are failures they never learn
why the failures happened and so they are bound to repeat them.
It is a good idea to get advice, but do it yourself. At least
understand it yourself even if you will delegate the actual
doing.
9. They give up when they face challenges.
Going through the challenges is what has made people rich, not
giving up. Look, there are always challenges. So get used to
that. You will only get where you wish to get to if you are
willing to face the challenges along the path. All challenges
are opportunities dressed in work clothes, remember that. After
the challenge is over, you will discover the amazing fruit it
held for you.
10. They fail to conduct their lives as a business;
they never ensure that they make a profit year by
year. Get a personal finance package like Quicken or
Microsoft Money. you need to have budgets and cash flow
statements for you personal finances and your businesses. It is
easy with those software packages. If you don't keep records
and track, you wont know when you are making or losing money
until it is embarrassingly too late.
11. They allow other people's ideas to affect their
decisions unreasonably. There will always be people
who don't believe in your way, or who are pessimistic, who try
to pull you down, or whatever. And they will sometimes be your
closest friends and family. You cannot change that - they have
a right to be who they are. It is OK. Allow them their
thoughts, don't judge them for that, but don't feel obligated
to accept their thoughts of follow their way. Don't allow other
people, now or from the past, unreasonably affect your
decisions. Allow them their way, and you live your way.
12. They don't get quality coaching. This
is extremely important! Coaching is simply getting mentored by
someone who has succeeded wildly in the area of your interest.
Get coaching! Our education system hardly equips us for real
life, so don't assume that because you went to college you are
properly equipped. Hardly. You need to keep learning. The most
successful people attend seminars, read books, join mastermind
groups and clubs, find mentors, network, and even hire
expensive personal coaches to make sure they succeed.
How many of these reasons can you identify with? Well, now
that you see the reasons, you now can look at yourself and make
sure that you don't follow ways that are known to not lead to
wealth. Follow what works and it will work. And don't forget to
enjoy yourself along the way.
David Cameron is the author of wealth
and self development books such as A Happy Pocket Full of
Money, showing many how to create the lives of their dreams and
beyond. Download free trial ebooks, software, courses.
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